Basic Information
| Field | Detail |
|---|---|
| Full name | Kristen Meredith Mcmain (publicly known as Sister Kristen M. Oaks) |
| Spouse | Dallin H. Oaks (married August 25, 2000, Salt Lake Temple) |
| Children | No known biological children; stepmother to six children from her husband’s first marriage |
| Parents | William A. McMain, M.D. (d. 2006); Margaret “Maggie” Peery McMain (d. April 25, 2014) |
| Siblings | Margot Dixon; Kate (Katherine) Park; Amanda Holbrook |
| Education | BA in English, University of Utah; MA in Special Education, University of Utah; EdD in Curriculum & Instruction, Brigham Young University |
| Career | Educational consultant (publishing industry); Visiting assistant professor of education at BYU; Author and speaker |
| Mission | Japan Sendai Mission (Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints) |
| Notable work | “My Home Can Be a Holy Place” (children’s picture book) |
| Public ministry highlights | Worldwide Devotional for Young Adults (May 21, 2023); reflections on the Philippines (2024); Utah Area YSA keynote (late Aug/early Sept 2025) |
| Languages | English; experience with Japanese |
| Financial disclosure | Not publicly disclosed |
Early life and the making of a teacher
In a family grounded in service and learning, Kristen Meredith Mcmain grew up under the steady influence of a physician father and a civically engaged mother. That current of care and curiosity ran straight into her own academic path: a bachelor’s degree in English followed by a master’s in special education at the University of Utah. She later completed an EdD in curriculum and instruction at Brigham Young University, a choice that signaled both scholarly engagement and practical ambition—how people learn, and how to help them learn better.
Her missionary service in the Japan Sendai Mission added a layer of global perspective and discipline. Days defined by language study, cultural listening, and purposeful outreach would become a recurring motif in her later professional life, which often crossed borders and classrooms.
Career in education and publishing
Kristen built a career at the intersection of pedagogy and practice. As an educational consultant in the publishing industry, she trained teachers and supervisors across the United States and internationally. The work demanded both evidence-based rigor and the human touch—coaching professionals in real classrooms where the bell rings and the clock is unforgiving.
Her university experience included time as a visiting assistant professor of education at Brigham Young University, where she brought field-tested methods into academic settings. That dual lens—research-informed and classroom-proven—shaped her approach to curriculum design, teacher development, and student outcomes. She later distilled her family-facing approach to learning and faith into a children’s picture book, “My Home Can Be a Holy Place,” merging literacy, visual storytelling, and spiritual scaffolding for young readers.
Marriage and household context
On August 25, 2000, in the Salt Lake Temple, Kristen married Dallin H. Oaks. She was in her early 50s at the time, beginning a first marriage while stepping into a well-established family ecosystem. Her husband had six children from his first marriage to June Dixon Oaks, who passed away in 1998. As a result, Kristen is widely known as stepmother to those children and grandmother-figure to a growing posterity. There is no public record of biological children from her marriage.
Public ministry became part of the household rhythm. Notable joint appearances include a worldwide devotional for young adults on May 21, 2023, where their messages emphasized covenant discipleship and practical faith. In 2024, videos and features highlighted their reflections on the Philippines, focusing on temples, conversion, and the long arc of church establishment in the archipelago. In late August/early September 2025, Kristen delivered a keynote at a Utah Area YSA conference, addressing young single adults with a blend of candor and encouragement.
Parents and siblings: the family constellation
Kristen’s parents, William A. McMain, M.D., and Margaret “Maggie” Peery McMain, represent a blend of medical service and community care. Her father’s professional life in medicine and her mother’s social-minded engagement provided a life blueprint: knowledge put to work for people.
The McMain family includes four daughters:
- Kristen (later known publicly as Sister Kristen M. Oaks)
- Margot Dixon
- Kate (Katherine) Park
- Amanda Holbrook
Her father passed away in 2006; her mother died on April 25, 2014. Their obituaries confirm the family’s names, ties, and a legacy of education and service that ripples through Kristen’s work and public voice.
Themes and voice: teaching as ministry
Across talks, interviews, and essays, consistent themes surface: hope for single adults and young adults, the sacred potential of ordinary homes, and the patient craft of becoming. She often frames growth as incremental—like a watercolor washed layer by layer until an image resolves. The educator’s instinct shows up in her pacing and structure: define terms, model practice, invite application. Whether speaking to a chapel of students or a worldwide audience online, her tone evokes a teacher who believes there is more in you than you suspect—and who will wait for it to emerge.
Selected appearances and work
- May 21, 2023: Worldwide Devotional for Young Adults (with President Oaks)
- 2024: Public reflections featuring the Philippines—temples, conversion stories, and long-term church growth
- Late Aug/Early Sept 2025: Utah Area YSA conference keynote
- Ongoing: Articles, interviews, and videos focused on singles, young adults, and family-centered discipleship
- Publication: “My Home Can Be a Holy Place,” a children’s picture book that treats the home as a small temple of learning and love
Timeline (key public milestones)
| Date | Event |
|---|---|
| August 25, 2000 | Marriage to Dallin H. Oaks in the Salt Lake Temple |
| 2006 (Feb–Mar) | Passing of father, William A. McMain, M.D. |
| April 25, 2014 | Passing of mother, Margaret “Maggie” Peery McMain |
| May 21, 2023 | Worldwide Devotional for Young Adults (joint address) |
| 2024 | Reflections and media related to the Philippines |
| Late Aug/Early Sept 2025 | Utah Area YSA keynote address |
What isn’t public
Some details that often get asked about public figures remain private in Kristen’s case. No reliable public net-worth figures, salaries, or personal financial disclosures are available. Specific dates for her academic degrees have not been published widely, though the degree fields and institutions are well established. Similarly, while she is frequently active in Utah and across church assignments, her personal residence is not publicized.
The educator’s imprint on family life
Kristen’s educational lens extends into family relationships. As a stepmother and grandmother-figure, she appears to lean on principles she taught professionally: scaffold, encourage, model, and celebrate progress. The home becomes a seminar room and a sanctuary at once—where small rituals teach big truths and where conversation, like a good curriculum, is sequenced to build understanding and confidence over time. In that sense, her book title functions as a thesis statement for the whole household.
FAQ
Is Kristen Meredith Mcmain the same person as Sister Kristen M. Oaks?
Yes. “Sister Kristen M. Oaks” is the name commonly used in public church settings; her full name is Kristen Meredith Mcmain.
When did she marry Dallin H. Oaks?
They married on August 25, 2000, in the Salt Lake Temple.
Does she have biological children?
No public record indicates biological children; she is a stepmother to six children from her husband’s first marriage.
What degrees does she hold?
She earned a BA in English and an MA in Special Education from the University of Utah, and an EdD in Curriculum & Instruction from Brigham Young University.
Where did she serve a mission?
She served in the Japan Sendai Mission.
What is her professional background?
She worked as an educational consultant in the publishing industry and as a visiting assistant professor of education at BYU.
What book has she authored?
She wrote the children’s picture book “My Home Can Be a Holy Place.”
Does she speak to young adults and single adults?
Yes, she is a frequent speaker to these audiences, emphasizing faith, purpose, and practical discipleship.
Is her net worth publicly available?
No; there are no credible public disclosures of her personal financial details.
What recent public events has she participated in?
Highlights include a worldwide devotional for young adults in 2023, public reflections on the Philippines in 2024, and a Utah Area YSA keynote in late August/early September 2025.